Thursday, April 29, 2010



Recently Clinton told us about a young man (let’s call him Joe) he knows from the neighbourhood. Joe had been on the streets for some time. He doesn’t know his father and his mother is trapped by a life of alcoholism. From what we were told he was not wanted by extended family, so he was making his own way. That’s not uncommon here; there are many young people on the streets. What is uncommon is someone rescued him from a life of hopelessness. Clinton was moved to help this young man. Most poor people are not so generous. They are more likely to hoard what they have instead of sharing. It’s really a “protect my own” mentality.


As “head boy” of his school, Clinton was able to use his position to plead Joe’s case to the administration of the school. The results - this young man is now able to stay at the hostel as a guest of the school. We see this as very good news because that means that even those who are poor can reach out to others less fortunate than themselves. In the process of helping Joe with housing, Clinton talked with him about his spiritual life and Joe accepted Christ as his Saviour this week. On Easter Sunday Joe joined us for church and he stayed with us all that day and night too. We packed a snack bag for him as is our weekly custom for our other two boys (Clinton and Simon) before we brought them back to school the next day. Our family is growing!
Praise the Lord! You have been a part of this ripple effect, you know. We are seeing the second generation of seeds that were planted months ago. God is working in these young lives and we give Him all the glory.


Your financial support is giving us the freedom to feed and care for these young people whose parents just can’t for various reasons. It’s a pleasure to have them in our home. This month is the “winter” holiday for school kids, and Simon and Clinton will be taking a little time away to visit family. They are based at our house during weekends and holiday times like this and we enjoy these “extra” times with them. Simon will be travelling to the north to attend a ministry friend’s wedding as well as to visit his elderly grandmother. This will be only the second time he has been with his grandmother. Can you imagine? He is very excited to surprise her. Like I said, it’s a pleasure for us to help. It’s almost like watching dreams come true. Of course we have to pack some food for him.... Well, we can’t send him empty-handed, c’mon,... I’m Italian, remember? What I wouldn’t give for a Claro’s market around here!

Tuesday, April 20, 2010

Mighty Mens Conference 2010

I just returned from attending The Mighty Men's Conference led by Angus Buchan the author of Faith Like Potatoes. The conference was at his farm in Greytown, South Africa. What is the big deal about a men's conference? Well this one had at least 400,000 men gathered for one purpose - to worship and to hear from God. Yes, I said 400,000 men. You can look up Mighty Men Conference on YouTube. There are already several clips from people who attended.


I have to start by saying that this was an experience that I am still trying to fully absorb. Putting what I experienced into words is not going to be easy but I want you all to know what happened.


The conference ran from the 16th through the 18th of April, but my journey began on April 14th. I boarded a bus in Windhoek, Namibia and we traveled 950 miles. The trip took over thirty hours. The trip in itself was an adventure because I was on a bus with 58 other men all headed to the same conference. I was the only one on the bus who only spoke english. I was nervous, excited, frustrated, tired and totally out of my comfort zone. I did not know anyone on the bus. I had no idea how long it was going to take to get to South Africa and I was not in control. I do not do well under those circumstances but God was working on me. I got to know a few of the guys on the way down and I was beginning to feel more comfortable. We shared with each other and by the time we arrived in Greytown, South Africa I felt better about being with these men.


When we got to Greytown it took us another hour to get to the Buchan farm. As we drove on dirt roads we came over a hill and the site took my breath away. We were looking over the Buchan farm and there spread out before me were tents, cars, campers and people for as far as the eye could see. How can I help you understand the magnitude of what I saw? Well Petco Park holds 42,445 people. The number of men at this conference could have filled Petco park nine and a half times. I still cannot believe what I saw and I was there.


The first session began at 7 pm Friday night. We had to walk just over a mile from our campsite to get to the main stage. The stage was set up high with three huge video screens. In front of the stage were row upon row of hay bales and throughout the field there were huge towers with more speakers and more video screens. Word has it they had to run over 4 miles of cable to power everything.


We started with some praise songs and I have to tell you I glimpsed a piece of heaven. To hear over 400,000 men raising their voices in praise to God was beyond words. We were in a valley of sorts and you could hear the voices echoing off the hills. I know God was watching and had to have a tear of joy in His eyes as He watched that many men, His children, singing to Him. I was unable to sing at times and had tears streaming down my face. It was the most incredible thing I have ever experienced.


Then Angus Buchan came on stage. From where I was sitting he looked like an ant and I was pretty close to the stage. Angus expressed his being overwhelmed at seeing so many men. He then shared that the theme of the camp was about being Watchmen. He reference Ezekiel 3: 17-19 and as he recited the verses we knew that we were going to be challenged about being men of God. Angus did not share anything profound and it was all stuff we knew and heard before but his humility and his genuineness captured the hearts and the attention of the men. Angus did not hold back. He challenged every man there about being watchmen in their homes, communities, churches, work places and schools. That first night we consecrated ourselves and santified ourselves before God. Grown men were humbled before God and many for the first time. Men wept openly and prayed with and for each other. Men for the first time in their lives made public declarations of their faith. It was humbling and you could almost hear the angels rejoicing in heaven over each man that gave his life or rededicated his life to Christ.


After the first session we walked ove a mile back to our tent and I was so tired I just went to sleep. I woke up at three in the morning and could not get back to sleep so I got dressed and went for a walk. I walked between the rows of tents and just felt the presence of God over us. I looked and saw a layer of mist hanging over the camp which felt like God covering and protecting us. I prayed as I walked and praised God for what He was doing. I prayed over the men in attendance and then started walking back to our tent. As I was walking back I looked out again and I sensed that on the hills around the camp where His angels watching over us too.


Saturday was another day of challenge. The first session Saturday focused on our time with God. Angus felt God telling him we needed to be silent before the Lord so we all got on our knees in the field and bowed our heads and for five minutes we were not allowed to talk or move. Imagine 400,000+ men bowed before the Lord, silent, listening to hear from Him. I get goose bumps again just remembering it. You could have heard a pin drop. At the end of five minutes Angus said we could sit again but almost every man stayed on his knees. Angus then said that for some the five minutes went quickly and for others it felt like an eternity. Then he said that five minutes is no where near enough time to be in His presence. He challenged every man to spend an hour with the Lord alone every day. We then were released to have lunch and reflect on what we heard.


The evening session on Saturday was the largest crowd yet. We did not care about the media helicopters flying over head, we did not care that we were making history, we just wanted to praise our Father and hear from Him again through His servant Angus. This session was more for the fathers. Angus challenged the men to train up their boys to be men and then to release their boys to be men. Again nothing profound but straight to the heart. At the end of the session Angus asked fathers and sons to get together. I looked out over the crowd and saw fathers embracing sons. I saw them crying together and I was overwhelmed. I wept and rejoiced seeing fathers with their sons. Then Angus challenged the fathers again to release their sons to be men of God.


That night we went back to our tents exhuasted but full of the Spirit. We sang praise songs with those camped next to us and just enjoyed fellowship with each other. Men sang and shared openly for over two hours.


We woke up Sunday with excitement about the next session and with reluctance because this was the last session. Sunday the wives were invited to attend and Angus focused on speaking to the women. He outlined what the men had gone through and challenged the women to let their men be the watchmen of their homes. It was a short message and then we prayed together and it was over.


During each session Angus would say "Amen" as a war cry and the men would echo back loud and with everything they had as one voice. You can listen to the bits on YouTube and hear a sample but it does not do it justice. To hear over 400,000 men say "Amen" as we did and to hear it echoing off the hills around us... no words can do it justice. I can only imagine how our Father in heaven felt. I can see Him sitting proudly on His throne saying, "Those are my boys."


Angus challenged us to be the men God called us to be. He reminded us of our responsibilties and said that if each of the men in attendance kept their word to God then there is no way South Africa and the rest of the world would not be changed. I agree with that. I know that many of the men will go back and their lives will not change but I hope and I pray that those whose life was changed will go home and begin to make a difference.


Each man who is reading this, and who is a Christian we are each watchmen and we need to heed the words written in Ezikiel 3:17-19 "17 Son of man, I have made you a watchmen for the house of Isreal; so hear the word I speak and give them warning from me. 18 When I say to a wicked man, "You will surely die," and you do not warn him or speak out to dissuade him from his evil ways in order to save his life, that wicked man will die for his sin, and I will hold you accountable for his blood. 19 But if you do warn the wicked man and he does not turn from his wickedness or from his evil ways, he will die for his sin; but you will have saved yourself." To my brothers reading this, please do not let another man's blood be found on your hands. Stand up and be the watchman. Alone we can do nothing but together through Christ we are unstoppable and Satan and his legions must flee!

Saturday, April 17, 2010

When you least expect it!


I won't mention her name, but one of the volunteers here gave us a very nice card before she left. Her words caught us off guard. As we read tears filled our eyes. Her raw honestly and transparent sharing made us realize that we are having an impact on lives even when we are hanging out at home. It begs the question: "Who are you when the spotlight is off, and the audience leaves?" Here is an excerpt from her note to us:

"....I felt so lost and I think I lost my faith in true love. I needed proof from God that it is possible to be married and happy at the same time. And then I met you, I saw you interacting with each other, I saw your love for each other and I heard you, Catherine talking about your marriage in the Choose to Wait training. That all touched my heart and was exactly what I desperately needed. You made a difference in my life and the word. Thanks is not enough to express what it means to me!"

She is not Namibian and yet the Lord has used our relationship to encourage her in her faith and personal life. So... one never knows who is watching or listening. When you least expect it - God could use you to bless someone. Share the love my friends.... share the love!

Keep your eyes on this blog. I know when Tony returns from South Africa, he will have MUCH to share.

Monday, April 5, 2010

Celebrating the Risen King!
















Some places still celebrate Easter. You know, the stores are closed on Good Friday, people go to church and it's not all about bunnies, baskets and egg hunts. Well, I wish I could say that the people of Okahandja understand and honor the true meaning of Easter, but I can't. However, the stores are closed and the whole town takes a long vacation from Good Friday to "Easter Monday," which is a public holiday. I am happy to report that the Duran's took some rest time as well. Clinton and Simon joined us on a family day outing to Swakopmund. Ah... yes... sitting on the beach (bundled with sweatshirt and towels), enjoying the gentle splashing of the sea! Heavenly! If you're wondering if the water is cold, you'll have to ask the boys. It was a first for Simon. He had never been in the sea before, so it was fun watching them catching waves. Clinton experienced his first go-kart racing. We laughed, played and got a little caught up in the competition, but all-in-all had a relaxing day in the sun, with the smile of the Son upon us. So nice!